My near life moment | Laxmi Hariharan
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My near life moment

I was six weeks pregnant, or it may have been eight, when the pain caught me unaware. When I look back now I think I can tell with pretty accurate precision the exact moment that little thing which was not yet a foetus tore its way through my left fallopian tube. It didn’t live to tell its own story. Hence it falls to me to narrate the journey of that soul that never was, and how she—I just know it would have been a she—changed my path.
I call this my near life experience. For it was in almost giving birth to a new life that I stumbled across the courage to really live my own.
I remember clearly the first line of poetry I wrote. It’s a very distinct memory. I knew then I would write. A lot. It took many, many years; a few lifetimes; many reinventions to actually give some shape to what my five-year-old self had seen.
Emerging from the haze of morphine at the hospital—thank god for drugs—I switched off my cell phone and went offline for a month.
A full four weeks.
A first and never since.
In the silence that followed, I looked into the eyes of my husband and saw real fear: he didn’t want to lose me.
I didn’t want to die either. Not yet.
And yet I could have. And I would never have written all that was in my head, that which I saw so clearly.
In my weakened state-of-mind, I clearly saw the many generations of thwarted writers in my family—yep, I come from one of those families where everyone writes, but no one ever gets published—shake their heads sadly at me. They had thrown down the gauntlet.
Was I going to do it? End this pathetic, self-pity filled story stretching across time?
Perhaps it was being put deep under by the anaesthesia, for I am told it really is a little like dying. Well the closest one comes to dying without actually… dying; when you are sedated enough for them to cut into you. Maybe it was that which dropped me deep into myself, enough to touch the stuff that really mattered. The debris hidden behind decades of conditioning shot to the top.
So when I switched on my cell-phone and plugged back into the real word, I knew what I had to do. Write those damn books.
My second book The Many Lives of Ruby Iyer about a screwed up teenager, who comes of age in a Bombay on the verge of complete annihilation is out November 13. It’s released by Amazon White Glove, through Jacaranda Literary Agency.
girl desperate to rescue her best frienda cop willing to do anything to save the city he serves, and a delusional doctor bent on its  annihilation. When Ruby Iyer’s best friend is kidnapped by the despotic Dr Kamini Braganza, she will do anything to rescue him. Anything, including taking the help of the reticent Vikram Roy, a cop on a mission to save Bombay. The city needs all the help it can get, and these two are the only thing standing between its total destruction by Dr Braganza’s teen army. As Bombay falls apart around them, will Ruby be able to save her friend and the city? Will she finally discover her place in a city where she has never managed to fit in? And what about her growing feelings for Vikram? 

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